Maintaining Work-Life Balance: When and How to Take a Mental Health Day
Andy Agouridis
Andy Agouridis | 19 Aug 2024
In today's fast-paced and often high-pressure work environments, maintaining a healthy work-life balance is not just a luxury—it is a necessity. Hence, the concept of a 'mental health day' is gaining traction. Prioritising overall well-being has become increasingly important to prevent burnout, reduce stress, and enhance productivity.
According to a study conducted by the Mental Health Foundation, 61% of UK professionals who either left or are planning to quit their jobs cited poor mental health as the cause. Thus, by focusing on mental health, companies can not only help their employees improve their well-being but also perform better.
In this blog, we will discuss when and how to request a mental health day and how to make the most out of this essential time off.
Can You Take A Day Off For Mental Health?
In short, yes.
In the United Kingdom (UK), you are legally allowed to take time off to care for your mental health. This is generally covered under the provisions for sick leave. You can self-certify for the first seven days of your leave without needing a medical note. If you need to extend your leave beyond that, you'll require a note from your general practitioner.
If you're worried about sharing anything about your mental health at work, don't be. In the UK, under the Equality Act 2010, it is illegal for employers to discriminate against staff members with mental illnesses. Employers must consider such issues in equivalence to physical conditions and offer support like adjusting work hours, or helping with workload management, so that people perform their best.
However, the specifics of the situation will also depend on your company's policies and culture. We suggest checking your employee handbook or talking to Human Resources (HR) to explore your options. If you are thinking of taking time off, it's best to discuss your needs and the support you require with your employer first.
When to Take a Mental Health Day
Recognising the signs of mental fatigue and knowing when to take a mental health day is crucial. It's vital in preventing chronic stress and burnout. Sometimes, we wait too long to address our mental fatigue, allowing symptoms to worsen.
Here are some key factors that indicate it's time to step back and take care of yourself:
- Feeling Overwhelmed or Unusually Irritable: If you feel like your daily tasks are piling up on each other, or you get angry at minor inconveniences.
- Persistent Exhaustion: If you are not just physically tired but are also experiencing an unshakeable weariness that cannot be fixed with sleep.
- Difficulty Concentrating: When you're finding it hard to focus on things that would typically be easy, or making any decisions feels impossible.
- Lack of Enjoyment: If you notice that activities that used to make life worth living have become dull or irritating, and socialising seems like too much effort.
- Lack of Focus: If you find it difficult to focus on projects at work and constantly find yourself drifting away in negative thoughts.
How to Ask for a Mental Health Day
Bringing up the topic of your mental health can be difficult, especially if you are unsure of how your manager will react. It’s important to handle these discussions with confidence and clarity. Here are some tips to keep in mind:
1. Plan the Conversation
Timing is important. Find a moment when your supervisor doesn't seem too occupied or rushed. For example, avoid bringing up the topic early in the day or right before an important meeting. It's also a good idea to plan what you'd like to say. It'll help you convey your request more confidently.
2. Be Straightforward
After deciding when to talk, it is important to be clear about what you want to say. Be precise, professional, and direct when making your request. Don't overshare your personal details; it's okay to maintain your privacy. For example, you could say, 'I am experiencing burnout and would like to take a day off to focus on my mental health.'
3. If Helpful, Share Proper Context
Depending on your relationship with your supervisor, you can decide how much information you want to share about your leave with them. In some situations, providing more context is helpful because your manager can provide you with the proper support for it. For example, if your mental stress is caused by a complex project or increased workload, your manager may be able to help you deal with the direct causes of your tension.
4. Keep Your Workload in Mind
Evaluate where you stand with your projects and tasks. Determine what should be prioritised or can be postponed. Discuss how you plan to handle your workload. This could mean finishing critical tasks before your day off, asking a colleague for assistance, or having a short handover meeting with the team.
If you assign tasks to others, provide details about what will be done and who will do it. Show your manager that you are still dedicated to your job and responsibilities. Indicate clearly that once you return from leave, you will continue your work, and mention any support you'll require to get up to speed.
5. Write a Follow-up Email
Send an email following up on your verbal communication and formalise the request. This way, you can ensure everything is clear about what was discussed. The email should be concise while still summarising the conversation. It should ask for a day off due to mental health and note any agreed-upon changes in the workload.
Planning Your Mental Health Day
Once you’ve secured your mental health day leave, it’s important to plan it to make it more effective and relaxing. Consider engaging in activities such as practising yoga, attending a meditation class, spending time with family and friends, or even going for a hike. Think about what helps you recharge and takes away your focus from work.
While you may feel tempted to catch up on your household chores, try to take up activities that actually help you rejuvenate. Some employers also offer mental health resources at the workplace, such as access to counsellors and wellness programs. It could be helpful to explore those resources too.
Remember, you deserve a day off for your mental health if you feel like you need one. Don't feel guilty about it. Investing in your well-being should be your priority. It will not only make you feel better about yourself, but will also make you a better employee at the workplace in the long run.
Andy Agouridis
Andy is on a mission to help candidates do what they love. Apart from being a Glassdoor contributor, he is the Director of CareerHigher, a career writer, and a speaker. He has a background in HR with Fortune 100 businesses, holds an MSc in HRM, and is a Chartered member of the CIPD.



